We (Sheila, Jen and Arlene) brought our own personal wedding shower to Paul and Amanda.  Since we came in from Delaware for their wedding, we weren't able to be at the other two showers that were thrown for them, so we decided to have our own.  We had so much fun shopping and buying for them that we went a little crazy with the gifts.  In fact, there were so many gifts that we ended up having to leave some of our own stuff at home because we couldn't fit anything else in the van. We definitely went overboard, but we had a blast doing it!